What do Groomsmen Need to Know about Wedding Flowers?

Sure, most people’s eyes go straight to the bouquets and table arrangements. But groomsmen—yes, you guys—play a key role in making the floral magic happen, too. 

Whether you’re wearing boutonnieres or lending a hand during the ceremony, it’s the small details that elevate the day. And trust us, in Leesburg, VA and throughout the Washington D.C. area, these details matter.

So, what do you really need to know about wedding flowers? J. Morris Flowers has you covered. Grab your coffee, sit back, and let’s break it down.

What Are Groomsmen Responsible For?

The Boutonniere: 

Your number one responsibility? Wearing that boutonniere like you own it. Think of it as a floral badge of honor that ties you into the wedding party’s look.

Here’s the scoop:

• What is it? A small floral arrangement (usually pinned to the lapel of your jacket) that complements the overall wedding theme.
• Why wear it? It’s tradition, but it also makes you look put-together and cohesive with the rest of the wedding party. A sharp suit and flowers? That’s a win.

Now, if pinning a boutonniere sounds stressful, we’ve got good news: flower pocket boutonnieres are on the rise. 

These modern alternatives slide neatly into your jacket’s pocket—no pins required. We’ve seen these take off for Leesburg-area weddings because they’re easy, stylish, and foolproof.

Quick Tip: How to Pin a Traditional Boutonniere

If you’re sticking with the classic style:

1. Place the boutonniere on your left lapel (above your heart).
2. Hold it steady and pin from the back, ensuring the stem stays flat.
3. Bonus: Have someone check it looks straight. Trust us, this little step matters for photos.

What’s the Deal with Boutonnieres?

Let’s talk style. The boutonniere might be small, but it packs a punch. It’s your chance to add a little flair without going overboard.

How to Match the Wedding Theme

Boutonnieres typically mirror the flowers seen in the bridal bouquets or centerpieces, but that doesn’t mean you’re stuck with roses if you’re not feeling it. Popular flower choices that thrive in the Northern Virginia and Washington D.C. climates include:

• Spray Roses: Classic and elegant.
• Ranunculus: Perfect for a fresh, textured look.
• Calla Lilies: Sleek and modern.
• Herbs and Greenery: For a rustic or understated vibe.

Coordinate your boutonniere with your tie, pocket square, or even the bridesmaids’ bouquets for a polished, cohesive look.

Interestingly, ranunculus is considered one of the most durable flowers for boutonnieres, making it ideal for outdoor weddings where heat can be a challenge. 

According to the Knot, the average U.S. couple spends 7-10% of their wedding budget on flowers, emphasizing just how central floral details are to the event’s overall aesthetic. 

How to Handle and Care for Flowers

Your job as a groomsman doesn’t end once the flowers are pinned. Here are some tips to keep everything fresh throughout the day:

Practical Flower Care

1. Keep Cool: Heat and flowers don’t mix well, so if you’re outdoors (hello, gorgeous Leesburg vineyards), stay in the shade as much as possible.
2. Avoid Crushing: Don’t let your boutonniere take a hit when hugging Aunt Karen for the fifth time. Be mindful of bumps and jostles.
3. Emergency Fixes: If the boutonniere starts to droop, a quick spritz of water on the stems can give it a refresh. And hey, that’s why pocket boutonnieres are a stress-free choice.

If the wedding is outdoors—especially in summer—ask about heat-tolerant blooms. At J. Morris Flowers, we can guide couples on which flowers will hold up best for outdoor ceremonies.

How Flowers Fit Into Wedding Photos

You might not think much about those flowers on your jacket, but photographers sure do. Boutonnieres, when styled and worn well, make wedding party photos shine.

Tips for Showing Off Your Flowers

1. Relaxed Poses: Whether you’re laughing with the groom or casually leaning against a wall, the boutonniere should be visible but natural.
2. Group Shots: Stand with your lapel forward so the boutonniere pops.
3. Candid Moments: Remember, florals are part of the story. They add elegance and detail that’ll stand out in those “big day” albums.

And let’s be honest, these little details make the wedding party look sharp—like you really know what you’re doing. Need some inspiration ideas for photos? The Knot has you covered. 

What If You’re Asked to Help?

Being a groomsman is about showing up—sometimes literally. While most of the floral work will be handled by professionals (like us at J. Morris Flowers), there may be moments when you’re asked to pitch in.

Common Floral Duties for Groomsmen

• Transporting Flowers: You might help move centerpieces, aisle decorations, or bouquets.
• Handing Off Bouquets: If the bridesmaids need their hands free before walking down the aisle, you’ll be the bouquet hand-off guy.
• Quick Fixes: Need to steady an arch arrangement? Adjust a centerpiece? Stay flexible and ready to assist.

It’s all about teamwork. And hey, it’s a good way to earn some bonus points with the wedding planner.

What About Unique or Themed Weddings?

Modern weddings are getting creative, and flowers are no exception. From rustic barn celebrations to sleek, minimalist affairs in downtown D.C., florals are often tailored to reflect the couple’s unique style.

Creative Boutonniere Ideas

• Rustic Weddings: Use herbs like rosemary or lavender for a fragrant, natural look.
• Modern Celebrations: Try monochromatic flowers or small, geometric arrangements.
• Themed Weddings: Add feathers, berries, or even small keepsakes (think tiny charms) for a personal twist.

At J. Morris Flowers, we specialize in crafting boutonnieres and floral details that fit the wedding vibe perfectly, no matter how unique. Still have questions? Read our blog or reach out to us. 

Why Flowers Matter to the Whole Wedding Party

Here’s the big picture: wedding flowers aren’t just “pretty extras.” They pull together the look and feel of the entire day, and groomsmen play a major role in that.

When you wear your boutonniere—or help with floral details—you’re contributing to the memories that everyone will treasure. It’s one of those thoughtful touches that makes weddings in Northern Virginia and the D.C. area feel elegant, intentional, and beautiful.

A Personal Note: The Small Things Matter

You might not think a tiny flower can make a difference, but trust us—it does. Wearing your boutonniere proudly, keeping it intact, and being ready to help where needed shows the couple you care. 

And when the photos come back, you’ll see just how much those small floral details brought the day together.

Weddings with Ease at J. Morris Flowers

So, groomsmen, now you know: flowers are part of your wedding-day toolkit. 

From wearing your boutonniere with confidence to lending a hand when needed, your attention to these details will go a long way. Flowers might seem small, but they make a big impact. 

So pin on that boutonniere, strike a pose, and enjoy the party—because you’re making the day even more beautiful. Cheers to you, groomsmen!

At J. Morris Flowers, we’re here to help couples—and their wedding parties—navigate all things floral. Whether you’re looking for modern flower pocket boutonnieres, heat-proof outdoor blooms, or unique themed designs, we’ve got you covered. 

For more floral tips or to explore custom options for your big day, feel free to connect with us. We’d love to help you look sharp and feel confident with flowers that make the wedding unforgettable.